Be A Challenge, Let 'Em Chase You

Here’re six ways you can make yourself an irresistible challenge right now.

1) Don’t Be Always Available: Be “busy” on weekends when you ask for dates. Ask the person out on a weeknight instead. When they ask you what you’re doing on weekends, tell them “stuff.” If they ask you what kind of “stuff”, say, “Meeting friends”, etc.

2) Don’t Tell Them You Like Them: Don’t tell them you like them. Remain a CHALLENGE. Once it's out in the open you like them, half the game is over. You're not interesting anymore, period. People love trying to figure out if a person likes them or not. Don't take this game away from them! Never, never tell them you like them. And never do anything stupid like “confessing” your love to them in a note or in an email.

3) Don’t Let Them Walk All Over You: Never let a person walk all over you. Have some backbone. Learn to say “no”. Have some backbone.

4) Don’t Buy Any Gifts: Don’t buy any gifts in the first ten dates. Once again, you can’t buy love with money.

5) Don’t Call Too Often: Don’t call to just “talk”. If you call, it’s for asking them out. Call them, ask them out, and hang up.

6) Be Prepared To Leave: Be prepared to walk away if you aren’t getting what you want from a relationship. Having this mindset will make you much more powerful.