Oral Sex - Foreplay Step-by-Step

Note: As you read this I want you to imagine yourself doing this to a lover, real or imagined, so that the techniques become part of you and will flow effortlessly from you when you are with a partner. If you don't have a partner at this time, imagine it over and over again so that the techniques will become second nature.

As you are kissing her mouth you also want to kiss her on other places on her face too. Kiss her, cheek bones, her chin, all over her lips kissing and sucking as you go (don't suck on her face, only her lips, as most women don’t like the skin on there face sucked on). Also you will notice that I did not include her forehead as this is normally a place where our parents and grandparents kiss us and is normally associated with non-sexual love and at this point you don’t want to remind her of non-sexual feelings.

Next move over to the area where her jaw line neck and ear meet. This is a very sensitive area. Very gently kiss, lick and suck on this area very tenderly and slowly. (If you say anything to her keep your voice very soft as you are very close to her ear and almost anything you would say in a normal voice would be loud and hurt her ear and possibly kill the mood.)

Now move down her neck very slowly doing that same as you did previously, and continue this if she is responsive. Remember that when you make love to a women you can always ask a women "Does this feel good?" That way you know you are not wasting time. But don't over do it with the asking.

At this point you should move along the path of her neck, shoulder, and breast. As you go along the path kiss, suck and lick. Move around the edge of the breast first kissing lightly then licking and finally gently sucking (don't suck hard enough to leave a hickey or bruise). Cover the entire breast but don’t touch the nipple yet. Move in a circular motion moving closer and closer each time around.

When you get just at the edge of the nipple use one of the mind blowing techniques to follow in the next post!!! (You can use them in any order, but "The Warm Breath" should be done first.)